I woke up this morning. That’s always a good thing. It means I have another day to enjoy on the green side of the grass and do what I do.
Yet, I woke up this morning, and things were totally different.
Today is my 40th birthday. A big moment in anyone’s life. After all, with the average life expectancy of a male in the United States pegged just shy of 80, that means that statistically half of my life is now in the book.
Today, I look back at the accomplishments of my past 40 years, and I have to smile. Sure, I did some pretty dumb things through the years. Opportunities lost – or completely missed. Bad decisions when I should have been making better ones.
But, all in all, I am where I am by making a lot of the right decisions. Studying hard in school. Graduating high school – then college. Asking my wife to marry me. Buying our first and only home. Deciding with my wife to become parents…
Becoming a woodworker. It’s amazing to think that I’ve been woodworking for a quarter of my life. About the same amount of time I have been a parent. I just can’t imagine life without my kids or my craft.
The crazy thing is that I feel like I’m not over the hill – but as if I am finally arriving at adulthood. My thirties were better than my twenties, and I feel as if my forties will be even better. After all, now I have another decade of knowledge and wisdom that I didn’t have when I entered my thirties. I am better at my job, I’m a better husband and father and I’m a much better woodworker.
Now, a lot of those painful learning lessons of just getting here are over and done with. Oh, sure I have a whole bunch more to get through – after all, my sons have yet to reach the terrible teen years.
However, I also know not to take myself so seriously. Now, I know that I have established myself at my job and in my craft. Now, I come armed with the knowledge and experience to accomplish what I want to in my life.
Now, I don’t feel like it’s all downhill…
It’s not a midlife crisis – it’s a midlife realization that yes, I did put my mind to what I wanted to do, and I was able to do it. Besides, if I did have a midlife crisis, I wouldn’t go for the stereotypical red convertible Corvette- I’d spring for a Powermatic 66 or a Delta Unisaw…
It almost makes me want to go out and build a new project with techniques I have never tried before…
Thanks for reading.